Tell Me About Your Failure

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Tell Me About Your Failure
Take those things out of your ears and tell me your biggest failure right this minute young lady!" That's me, parent extraordinaire, attempting a deep bonding moment with my pre-teen daughter. I was just following the advice of Stanford University professor Carol Dweck in her book, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success. She makes the case that intelligence can be developed through effort and education. We parents can foster this by, among other things, sitting around the dinner table and talking about mistakes and what has been learned from them. So when last Sunday afternoon found me, my husband... More »

Camping With Small Children is Not for the Weak

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Camping With Small Children is Not for the Weak
We tried our best. Our first night (Friday) was actually a lot of fun. We set up the site, had a lovely dinner with friends, the kids played joyfully in the forest, strolled to the beach to watch a gorgeous sunset, and wrapped things up with a campfire and marshmallows. A great start! The kids even went to sleep without too much muss and fuss! Ah, the outdoors are definitely for me. It was the next morning that things went sour. After awakening at 7:00 am (why don't children sleep late when they go to bed late?!) we noticed... More »

Remembering Shelby

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Remembering Shelby
Karri is an urbanmoms.ca member and mom of one who lives in Calgary. Last year she lost her beloved dog, Shelby, and this week she shares a glimpse into the grieving and recovery process of that loss in Remembering Shelby. I had a moment tonight that hasn't happened in a couple of months...  a piercing, soul-stopping, all-encompassing memory, based on smell.  I opened a bag of take-out Swiss Chalet that my husband had brought home, and (bear with me here) it smelled momentarily like Shelby after I used to walk her out in the summer rains of the big T.O. ... More »

Flying the Nest

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Flying the Nest
I just wanted to take a moment to have a word with all the girls out there with friends having a child leave for their first year at university. I am now going on my third year of this and must say that this year I think I will handle it better; some of us just have a really hard time with it. I really enjoy my son and I enjoyed having him in the house everyday. Even though I helped him select the University and I went for the orientation and everything, nothing could have prepared me for the... More »

The Joys of Parenting

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The Joys of Parenting
So when did I grow up? Last week, my vacuum cleaner died and I was angry...Why? Because vacuum cleaners are expensive! And I don’t have that kind of money to throw around... But wait...There’s more...Then my wireless router died, and yes, a wireless router that we DON’T need, but that my husband insists we have so that we can carry the laptop around the house... WHY? I don’t know... Even in the past when we had carried it around he was always ultra protective of how it was treated... Men! Hhmm...Regardless, I was livid, because now we have to replace... More »

Am I Alone?

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Am I Alone?
As a mom to 2 teens and a tween (all  girls), I am just wondering if  everyone's life is like this?? My  husband has already left for work. As I lie awake at 6:30, I hear the shower, then I hear it again. Even if I heard it last night, you are NEVER too clean for high school and heaven forbid if your hair did not turn out right. I don't step foot out of the room until 10 minutes before the bus comes; I have learned that it only serves one purpose to talk to a teen in... More »

Love Thy Neighbor

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Love Thy Neighbor
The Lounge is that special area of urbanmoms.ca reserved for member submissions. So sit back and enjoy this week's submission, brought to you from Kara of Peachland (gotta love that name!), BC. Often at the end of my days I sit down on my couch with a cup of tea and say to my husband “What a great day!” other days...not so much!  As the mother of 4 children under the age of 7 I often find myself in situations where I underestimate what can happen if just one little thing strays from the plan I had in my head.... More »

Hockey - To Play or Not to Play?

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Hockey - To Play or Not to Play?
It might seem strange to be talking about hockey but believe it or not this is the time of year to put some thought into it.  Most leagues have their registration in the spring and they fill very quickly. So how do you know if your little one is ready for Learn to Play?  If you ask me, all kids are ready to learn to play hockey.  Being the quintessential Canadian sport, every child will encounter hockey at some point in their lives so it’s great to get some skills under their belt early.  That way, if they choose... More »

Cabbage Rolls and an Undo Button

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Cabbage Rolls and an Undo Button
There isn’t a day that goes by that I haven’t wished for a real life undo button.  I’ve been a mother for almost sixteen years now and sometimes I shock myself with some of the stupid decisions I’ve made in the past.  For instance, one time when my oldest son was ten, he sat down for dinner.  On the menu that night were Grandma’s delicious cabbage rolls, a family favourite.  After he took a bite he gently put down his fork and announced, “I don’t want this!”  Not being in the mood for a childish food protest I shot... More »

Move over Letterman...

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Move over Letterman...
Kids Disney “COOL” Rating by Ross (age 8) and Sam (age 11):     BB – Blizzard BeachMK – Magic KingdomMGM – Disney MGM Studios Note that the Tower of Terror is missing from my brave 8 year old's list! In a brief interview with my kids here are some of their thoughts: Q. What would you change?A. Stay longer Q. What was super cool?A. Having my own Disney charge card to souvenir shop (limited funds)!! Q. What do you remember most? A. Trick or Treating with Mickey and his Friends Q.  What was not memorable?A. The food at the... More »